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We are in the 21st Centuryand here the life is BusyVery Busy. We dont have time that is what we say to others. Lets see, if we dont have time or if we dont know how to manage our time or our intentions are not right.

We all carry mobile phones (also known as Hand Phones and Cell Phones in other parts of the world)all the time, walking, eating, working, travelingeven also at the time of sleeping, but we dont have time to send a message or give a call to our parents or relatives.

In this era, it is impossible to think about a life without Internet (Earlier having internet at home was status symbolbut now it is a need)we have Internet in officewe have Internet at home, but we dont find even few minutes in a day to write few words for our friends.

We are living in Jet-Agewe can reach anywhereany part of the world, in less than 24 hours. But we dont have time to see our siblingsbrothers or sisterswho are living in same city, probably in the same colony.

We never forget to read newspaper or watch television to keep ourselves updated with the latest newslatest happening in the worldbut we hardly get time to know as what is happening in our colony or in our family.

We have time to go to Movie Theaters, Picnics, Shopping malls but we dont have time to visit our kids in their school or college and enquire about their performancetheir strengths and areas of improvements and if we dont have timethen of course, they will be Arrogant, Egoistic, ill-mannered and will behave in the same manner as I mentioned in my last write-up Learning from experience. (You can read the whole article at: http://ezinearticles.com/?Case-Study:-A-Great-Company-Plus-A-Great-Recruitment-Consultancy-Firm
...And-A-Great-Goof&id=291674 )

In this fast paced worldas we are growing; growing in terms of wealth, recognition, fame, rewards etcbut what we are loosing isthese Human Relations.

Time is moving fastpeople are growing fast. The mantra of life is The more I get the more I want. Gone are the days when people use to say, Saayian Itna Deejeye jaamey kutumb samaye. Mein bhi Bhukha na rahoon, Sadhu na Bhukha Jaaye (Oh God, I dont need anything extra I just need to be enough for to take care of my guests and my family.

I have seen, couples staying in the same house or probably in the same roombut they only meet on weekends. It is only on weekends that they get time to speak to each other.

For years togetherwe dont see our siblings and then when we meet, we say Oh my lovely neiceItni si thi jab dekhi thi. Kitni Badi ho gayi hai (When I last saw youyou were just a kid, now you have grown so much). If you dont get timeyour niece will not stop growing, right?

Friendsthe purpose and emotions involved in this relation have gone for the toss. We only call our friendswhen we are in need. I knowsome of my known friends who call only at the time when they need any jobor any advice or suggestion.

So, where are we actually going? Where are we heading for? Is this what we all want in our life? Are we willing to pay this cost for what we want in our life? We need to look within to find the answer. Are we so poor in managing our time? Or we are so poor in understanding the importance of Human Relations.

No one likesopportunistic relations or Just in need relationspeople want to be in touch. Spending time for these relationsis not wastage of timebut PROPER INVESTMENT OF TIME.

Well, these are my views on Human Relations and their importance. You can have different perceptiondifferent thinking and beliefs. Let me have your comments and feedback on this.

Looking forward to your feedbacks and comments.

Have a great day and stay in touch. Take very good care of yourselfbecause you are differentyou are special.

Regards

Sanjeev Himachali

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